Disappearing act dating
Because a man can be really interested in you, sleep with you, act like a future boyfriend for a few weeks, and be doing the EXACT SAME THING with another woman simultaneously.
So, when my now-fiance announced pretty early on that he wanted to be my boyfriend, I was in a state of very pleasant shock.
I think all of the fantasizing becomes a problem because so many of us have turned to online dating when we’re already desperate for a relationship.
That can quickly lead to the hopes that the next guy will be “the one.” Great post, as usual!
You want to know why your heart gets broken each time a new guy disappears?
It’s not because you’re a fool for believing that good men exist. He seemed so great, so perfect, so kind, so consistent. If this story feels familiar to you, it’s because it’s familiar to EVERYONE.