Enfp and infp dating

The person was an ENFP (an Extraverted, flexible green), dating an ISTJ (an Introverted, structured gold), and wondering how to make a relationship work between two opposite personality types.

I’m a definite ENFP and my husband is a definite ISTJ.

Ah, the joys of that first getting-to-know-you period!

When he calls when he says he will, when she takes a chaotic situation and uses cool reason to turn it into an organized pattern, when he shows you that you can count on him no matter what.Go have fun with your other Tigger and Piglet friends and don’t expect him to tag along. Have you ever tried to not say anything while you count to 10 during a meeting?Everyone needs an outlet for their true nature, and your sweetie will appreciate the quiet time alone to sort out his or her own thoughts. If you do this during the whole meeting, you might never get a chance to speak at all! Your ISTJ will grow toward you, but it will be at a slower pace than you want.Opposites often attract, there’s no doubt about it!We are naturally attracted to people with strengths and abilities that balance out our weaknesses.

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