Speed dating eye contact
So, he set about creating an event that was about making meaningful connections – where you have the time, space and right environment to give each other your 100% undivided attention and tap into each other’s ‘energy’ during the first encounter instead of it being something fleeting and disposable.
That is what Tantra is about and it forms the backbone of the philosophy around Tantric dating too.
If you’re like me, the little you know about Tantra is informed by the much publicly-discussed sex life of Trudie and Sting, after Sting made a throwaway comment in 1990. And yet I remember it and can’t seem to erase it from my memory.
I might as well have walked in on my parents doing it.
As we move into the candlelit studio, we remove our shoes and are asked to stand in a traditional puja circle.‘I’m not really sure what to expect,’ I overhear a man say nervously to the woman sitting next to him.I can’t see him – he’s sitting behind a bookcase stacked with yoga mats – and I daren’t lean forward to peek – but I’m with him.As, I think, are the swelling number of people who quietly turn up for the occasion.We are at a yoga studio in Manhattan on a Tuesday evening, waiting for a Tantric speed dating session to begin.