Tips for gay online dating 1 on 1 free sex chats
Having your own wheels gives you control should the date go bad.
The worst thing is to be reliant on somebody else for transportation as it gives them the control on how long you spend together and let’s face it, it’s safer to have your own car just in case. This may be obvious, but alcohol creates bad judgement and I have known too many women who have said yes to coming to my home after a few drinks.
Meeting and building quick rapport is so easy online and lately I’ve noticed that women all too often let their guard down, lose their common sense or abandon their self protection to a total stranger.
Dana Norris wrote an awesome piece about the things she learned about online dating. But for gay men, some of the advice needs the Ru Paul Fabulous Makeover.
So, let’s see what we can add and change from her article to make it work for us. In my experience, 70% are dick picks, 20% are pics of a guy holding a camera up so you can see his face and his butt in the background—usually he is lying on his bed—8% are pics of him holding his butt cheeks and pulling them apart while (assumedly) someone else takes a picture of his rosebud (sorry, Orson Welles, but that’s what the gay community calls “that area” of male anatomy), and 2%…well, let’s just say they’re graphic.
First, Norris mentions “You’ll receive lots of dick pics.” Fact. In fact, most of the gay dating apps (Grindr, Scruff, Growlr) have “locked” or “private picture” sections that a user can unlock for any bloke to whom he is chatting. You will receive lots of dick pics, so weed those guys out of potential dates. Also, they aren’t very creative, so they get boring after the taboo of “Oh, my God! Love.” in a profile, I will never date you, you cliché hack.
Also make sure that it treats them like a human being and not a potential masturbation aid.” This one doesn’t need to be gayed-up. 5) Norris’ fifth item talks about the men who troll for new profiles and welcome you by “proffering…template messages and/or dick pics.
Ignore the dick pic welcome wagon.” The stages of coming to terms with this phenomenon are different for us gays.